“Guide others and . . . strengthen your own faith by reading these books.” —Russell Moore
“A treasure trove of biblically based practical information.” —Wayne Mack
“Make a date with these books before booking a date.” —Robert J. Morgan
“Perron and Harmon have done an exceptional job.” —Martha Peace
It’s no secret that this stage of life is a tough one! The dating process is complicated and confusing—and that’s before you add difficulties like how to graciously decline a date, how to guard your bodies and hearts, and how to deal with sexual sin in your past.
But we are writing you with great news! God cares about you and your relationships, and his Word shares meaningful and practical advice. Sean Perron and Spencer Harmon, along with their wives, Jenny and Taylor, have written you several letters to guide you through this season of dating—each one is short, practical, and relevant, and contains discussion questions to help you apply it even more personally.
Whether you are struggling with singleness, enduring a breakup, embarking on a new relationship, or even making the final step toward engagement, opening up these letters will help you to start some helpful, God-honoring conversations.
“Rock-solid biblical guidance on . . . how to handle a first date, parents, breaking up, pornography, kissing, past sexual history, [and] declining a date. . . . If you want to honor Christ with your dating relationships . . . read this book.”
—Deepak Reju, Pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry, Capitol Hill Baptist Church, Washington, DC; Author, On Guard and The Pastor and Counseling
“Christian men and women who are seeking to understand how to make godly decisions concerning dating ned to carefully study the wisdom of this book. . . . You will be surprised at the practical wisdom this book gives. We highly recommend it to you.”
—John D. Street and Janie L. Street, Authors, The Biblical Counseling Guide for Women
As you stand on the cusp of marriage, you’re probably wondering about important topics such as sex, in-law relationships, and conflict resolution. Would you guess that these same issues come up when married couples are having trouble later? So basically, expect to discuss them either proactively with your fiancé now . . . or years into your marriage when they have turned into problems!
Sean Perron and Spencer Harmon, along with their wives, Jenny and Taylor, are here to help you get these conversations started. They have written several letters to guide you through your engagement, from your proposal to your wedding night. Each one is short, practical, and relevant, and contains discussion questions to help you apply it even more personally.
God’s Word, and the guidance of mentors who can open it with you, are the best source of clarity during your engagement—and, in these letters, that’s exactly what you will find.
“In a culture that is consistently and continually failing miserably at marriage, we desperately need someone to show us a better way. . . . [This book] is down to earth, practical, helpful, and rooted in God’s Word. We highly recommend it!”
—Kristen Clark and Bethany Baird, Founders, GirlDefined Ministries; Coauthors, Girl Defined: God’s Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity, and Identity
“Pull up a chair and spend a few hours with Sean and Spencer. You will come away packed with fresh faith, enriched by practical insights, and uniquely prepared for the magnificent journey toward marriage!”
—Dave Harvey, Executive Director, Sojourn Network; Author, When Sinners Say “I Do”: Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage